Choosing a Life Partner: Questions Worth Asking

Choosing a life partner is one of the most important decisions you will make. These questions help you look beyond the bio data.

Choosing a life partner is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. A bio data tells you about education, profession and family — but a marriage is built on much more.

Questions for the first conversations

• What does a normal week look like for you, and what would you like it to look like after marriage?
• How involved do you expect our families to be in everyday life?
• Where do you see yourself living in five years?
• How do you handle disagreements?
• What are you most looking forward to about marriage?

Listen for values, not answers

There are no perfect answers. What matters is whether your values sit comfortably together — about family, money, career, faith and the future.

Take your time

A good match should not feel rushed. Our team is always available to talk things through with you or your parents before the next step.